In our walk of preparation and development to reach our destinies in Chris Jesus, we come to different levels in our relationship with Him. The moment we accept to have a relationship with Jesus we become God’s children, adopted by Him to be led by His Spirit in our daily lives. Next we get called to evolve into a friendship with Him that requires our obedience as we grow the seeds of faith God endows us with for the things He has promised and the authority to walk them out in the earth realm.
Abraham is a good example of this. James 2:23 says that Abraham believed God, and because of this he was considered to be a righteous person, and he was even called a friend of God. So faith and trust in God and our belief in His promises help us become friends of God. Friendship with God is also a sign of maturity. It is more than just being His children because even in the natural realm, we grow into different levels in our relationship with our parents. We do not become friends with our parents until we have reached a certain age in which we can be entrusted with much more. Before that, we get training and coaching, but when we reach our adulthood, at this point we can handle the responsibility of moving out of our parent’s home.
Moses was also considered a friend of God and the Lord could speak to him face to face (His secrets) as stated in Exodus 33:11. This happens to us when we seek God and pursue His presence in worship and the reading of His Word, and seek His heart and the revelations that will help us continue to walk steadily in the path to our destinies with steadfast obedience to His commands for us. Then He can entrust us with more.
This happens because we have grown as doers of the word according to our faith levels and have learned to take steps according to His commands because we have found our hearts being consumed with the things that are in His heart. We want what He wants, we talk the way He talks, we concern ourselves with pleasing him, and doing His will becomes our most important priority no matter what we’re going through because we have learned to not question His commands, but to submit to them whether we understand them or not. This way we are being developed into becoming His bride without spot or wrinkle from the influence of the world around us because we are in it, but are not of it. Then we can reach a whole new level of intimacy with Him that others can see and learn to taste because we can pour out and influence them from what influences us—love. Esther is another great example for us. Esther 2:12-17 informs us that,
12Before each woman was taken to the king’s bed, she was given a prescribed twelve months of beauty treatments—six months with oil of myrrh, followed by six months with special perfumes and ointments. 13 When the time came for her to go in to the king, she was given her choice of whatever clothing or jewelry she wanted to enhance her beauty.” 14That evening she was taken to the king’s private rooms, and the next morning she was brought to the second harem, where the king’s wives lived. There she would be under the care of Shaashgaz, another of the king’s eunuchs. She would live there for the rest of her live, never going to the king again unless he had specially enjoyed her and requested her by name. 15When it was Esther’s turn to go to the king, she accepted the advice of Hegai (a representation of the Holy Spirit), the eunuch in charge of the harem. She asked for nothing except what he suggested, and she was admired by everyone who saw her. 16When Esther was taken to King Xerxes at the royal palace in early winter of the seventh year of his reign, 17the king loved her more than any of the other young women. He was delighted with her that he set the royal crown on her head and declared her queen instead of Vashti” NLT (Emphasis mine).
As you bare with me for the length of the passage, and see that these women all had to go through their “prescribed” development before they were called to go before the king, only one was found with the heart to please the king no matter what was asked of her because the king’s will became more important to her than any personal desire she may have. The other women chose what they wanted instead which in a way shows the condition of their hearts towards the things of God. They were excited to go before the king, but in their hearts, their agendas were more important than the king’s heart and His agenda. They were more consumed with the “things” they could get than what was in the heart of the king and did not realize that those “things” were only a by-product of the blessing of being called to be with Him, but were not the blessing itself.
This is also the reason why Vashti was replaced by Esther. In Esther 1:11-12 it is said that Vashti was a woman fair to look on, and the king sent for her because he wanted to show her to the masses, but she refused to fulfill the command to come and do what was asked of her thereby infuriating the king. Here there is an important thing to highlight: neither the concubines nor Vashti recognized the Kairos time that had approached. This was an appointed time, but Vashti did not recognize it because she had not prepared properly for it. In fact, she had missed some steps in the process because of rebellion that caused her to lose the crown in the end. Vashti also may have had a heart for the king, but just like the concubines that were not chosen for the crown, there were hidden agendas that kept her from obeying every command.
In addition, this shows that Vashti`s disobedience was a pattern and this last disobedience became the catalyst that made the king decide he could no longer keep her in that position of authority over the kingdom. This pattern of disobedience blinded her from recognizing when the appointed time for her to be brought to the forefront had come so she could lead others to the same pattern of steadfast obedience that was expected and required of her. In her heart, she thought that possessing half the kingdom was about living in luxury and enjoying the pleasures of life she took for granted.
Moreover, true honor was not part of Vashti’s character. To her, honor meant to receive obeisance from those around her just because of her position. It is true that her position called for her to be honored, but she actually demanded that others vowed to her. Everything she did, she did with the mindset of “what is in it for me” instead of what is in it for the king—the answer to that is always the glory that is due His name. Vashti became so haughty that she even thought she had the same rights as the king and could demand honor from him as well, but instead, she was demoted as one more of the concubines!
I encourage you to read the whole book of Esther to see that on the other hand, and with the help of her cousin Mordecai, (main representation of the Holy Spirit in this book) Esther recognized the position she was given was a strategic one and for a specific task on behalf of her people. In verse 16 of the first chapter, it says that this happened during the winter of the seventh year of the king’s reign—this means that there was a specific and appointed time for Esther to come that others did not pay attention to—only she knew when she could go in because she desired for everything to be perfected in her before going to be with the king more than what she could get out of it. We are called to be perfect because He’s perfect (Matthew 5:48)—we can do this only when our faith is made perfect through love.
Therefore, Esther did the right things, no matter how hard or how long she had to endure hardship. Through every trial and tribulation she recognized that the time she was chosen to come before the king was not only for her to benefit from, but that she was being prepared because there was a great group of people that needed to learn what was put in her during her time of preparation, so they too could be free to worship God without oppression. Her understanding of this important time in her life made everything come into alignment for her to become the next queen. This is what caused her to win the favor of the king and be chosen queen “for such a time as this.”
God is calling us in this hour to recognize our appointed time for which we have been prepared. Seeking Him, exalting Him, and obeying everything He tells us to do is extremely important in this hour. We have come to a time in which we will reap what we have sown and receive the reward of Jesus according to His will and the preparation we yielded to (Rev. 22:12). The great divide has begun to open and we are being positioned in the place that God has prepared for us. To Him alone be all the glory.∎
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