Judges 13:12
12 “Manoah said, ‘Now let Your words come to pass! What will be the boy’s rule of life, and his work?”
To begin this post, I want to bring out the importance for us believers to understand that a God-Restriction is a spiritual principle that we must all abide by. Other ways to define this principle are: God's government rule for us, or God's rule of life for us. I’m also including a couple of definitions of the word restriction to help us understand what God expects from us as His children, servants, and disciples.
Webster's Revised Unabridged Dictionary:
1. (n.) The act of restricting, or state of being restricted; confinement within limits or bounds.
... Noah Webster's Dictionary:
1. (vt) To adjust by rule, method, or established mode;
to direct by rule or restriction; to subject to governing principles or laws. ...
restriction sounds like a negative thing that most people would resist to not have in their lives, especially in our western culture, and also the younger generations. In many instances, the more the lack of awareness and understanding of this principle, the more propensity to unwisely resist it.
Some examples of restrictions and boundaries include:
A business plan, or a personal, family, business, or organizational mission and vision statement. These are restrictions that help us focus on what we will dedicate ourselves to and guard to not deviate from them because there’s no protection or profit in doing any other thing that does not pertain to our focus.
A Restriction of God in our lives is part of His higher ways and higher thoughts that protect us in our calling, during times of process, and as we reach our destiny where we will fulfill His plan and purpose. A God-restriction is very beneficial for us, and, in every season of our lives, we should be asking God to reveal His restrictions for us.
The enemy of our purpose has sought for centuries to have the upper hand over us, God’s people and he has been able to thrive by our ignorance because our ignorance causes us to disobey the principles of God that we don’t know exist. And when we don’t know what we’re violating, we easily give an unfair advantage to the enemy to oppress us.
Hosea 4:6
My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.
Because you have rejected knowledge,
I also will reject you from being priest for Me;
Because you have forgotten the law of your God,
I also will forget your children. NKJV
This was my life when I didn’t know that this principle of the Word of God existed and that He had restrictions for me and my family. For those of you who have read my posts or watched my videos, you might remember that I went through a process where I ended up sleeping in my car a few times with two other family members and the last times by myself. The first and longest time was a year and a half, the next time it wasn’t as long. A couple of months here and there.
I went through what is called a Job process where I lost everything. Every area of my life was touched in this process. Part of the way it manifested, happened when my ex and I disobeyed a restriction that God had given us. My ex inherited a house that was given to us mortgage-free. Besides that, we were also blessed with help to pay off 90% of our debt and were working to finish paying off the remaining 10% with some inherited investments which helped us live very comfortably financially.
Then God spoke two things to me:
The first thing He said was that He had blessed us in such a way because He wanted us to not get into debt of any kind. He had provided for us to pay off the rest of our debt also because we were to remain debt-free. In other words, debt was a restriction for us from God. Debt was to us like kryptonite was to Superman: it would cause very harmful effects in our lives if we allowed it in. As long as we remained debt-free, we were within the confines of our Garden of Eden.
The second thing God spoke to me was to leave my job because I was about to enter a new season and that job was not part of it. Some of you might have heard about that in my videos as well.
But then, things began to happen—the house needed remodeling and some repairs, and at this point, the enemy came in with his poisonous words of fear and even a threat and demand to pay a big amount of money we didn’t owe. On top of that, the cost of the remodeling and repairs tried to get out of hand, and when deadlines were approaching, that made things a bit nerve-wracking, so my ex gave in to the threats and got a bank loan to appease the enemy and his threats
This led to another loan some time later, and other forms of compromises that were violations of God’s restriction for us. Then, the financial crisis of 2007 and 2008 hit, and we were swept by it along with many other people. As far as my family is concerned, we had opened a door to the enemy due to our disobedience to God’s restriction for us which resulted in serious losses, including the house, the marriage, and as mentioned, all other areas of my life were also affected. In other words, we ended up getting kicked out of our Garden of Eden due to our disregard of God’s restriction for us.
Let me now show some examples from the Bible of God’s restrictions for His people. We can see from the very beginning in the book of Genesis, that God established restrictions for his people. Some restrictions are for a lifetime and others are for a season or the duration of an assignment from God. But remember that these are restrictions to protect our well-being, to preserve us in our place of assignment, and to help us make sure we reach our destiny, so we can fulfill His plan and purpose for our life. In the case of Adam and Eve, their restriction was for a lifetime.
Genesis 2:8-9, 15-17
8 “The Lord God planted a garden eastward in Eden, and there He put the man whom He had formed. 9 And out of the ground the Lord God made every tree grow that is pleasant to the sight and good for food. The tree of life was also in the midst of the garden, and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.”
15 “Then the Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to tend and keep it. 16 And the Lord God commanded the man, saying, ‘Of every tree of the garden you may freely eat; 17 but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die.” NKJV
Right away, we can see the boundaries God established for the man He appointed to tend His Garden, and we know that later the woman came, and after that, the serpent showed up to lure them away from obeying God’s restriction for them that would ensure they could remain as tenders of God’s garden. The next lifetime restriction we’re going to visit is Samson.
Judges 13:3-7, 12-14
3 “And the Angel of the Lord appeared to the woman and said to her, ‘Indeed now, you are barren and have borne no children, but you shall conceive and bear a son. 4 Now therefore, please be careful not to drink wine or similar drink, and not to eat anything unclean. 5 For behold, you shall conceive and bear a son. And no razor shall come upon his head, for the child shall be a Nazirite to God from the womb; and he shall begin to deliver Israel out of the hand of the Philistines.”
6 So the woman came and told her husband, saying, ‘A Man of God came to me, and His countenance was like the countenance of the Angel of God, very awesome; but I did not ask Him where He wasfrom, and He did not tell me His name. 7 And He said to me, ‘Behold, you shall conceive and bear a son. Now drink no wine or similar drink, nor eat anything unclean, for the child shall be a Nazirite to God from the womb to the day of his death.’ ”
12 “Manoah said, ‘Now let Your words come to pass! What will be the boy’s rule of life, and his work?”
13 So the Angel of the Lord said to Manoah, ‘Of all that I said to the woman let her be careful. 14 She may not eat anything that comes from the vine, nor may she drink wine or similar drink, nor eat anything unclean. All that I commanded her let her observe.”
From this passage, we can see that the one who was initially restricted was Samson’s mother. She was even warned about a set of restrictions before she conceived her son. She had been barren for several years, but when the appointed time came for her to conceive and have a son, she was visited by an Angel of the Lord to make sure she knew and understood God’s restrictions for her and her son.
Verses 4, 7, and 14 states and reiterate that Samson’s mother was to NOT drink wine or anything similar, nor eat anything unclean. The lifetime restriction for Samson was that he could not cut his hair for he was called to be a Nazirite unto God from the womb. A Nazirite type of calling means that the person is set apart to serve God in a certain way.
The passage also states the reason for the restrictions: that he was called to deliver Israel out of the hands of the Philistines. I also love that God gave us an example in this passage of the question we should ask God for ourselves, our families, our business, our ministries, each one of our children, and every time we enter into something new in our lives.
Verse 12 tells us that Samson’s father believed what the Angel who visited him and his wife said and then proceeded to ask these two very crucial questions. He said, “Now let Your words come to pass! What will be the boy’s rule of life, and his work?” This also means, what is the rule for His life and calling? This question was crucial because it would help them know how to raise their son with understanding, so they could obey what the Bible commanded them and train up their child in the way he should go, so he would be alert to not depart from it as he got older.
Proverbs 22:6
Train up a child in the way he should go, And even when he is old he will not depart from it. ASV
Parents, and leaders, especially those who are the head of anything such as the husband, head of the household, head of a company, head of a ministry, head of a city, State, or nation, have the responsibility from God to seek the Lord to know the governing rules of life of that which they lead, because where they go, those under their covering will end up going whether they like it or not.
To avoid leading in the wrong path, we need to seek the Lord about His rules or restrictions for our life and callings or assignments and communicate them to those we lead. We see an example of this type of leadership with understanding from Moses.
Deuteronomy 4:1-2
Now, O Israel, listen to the statutes and the judgments which I teach you to observe, that you may live, and go in and possess the land which the Lord God of your fathers is giving you. 2 You shall not add to the word which I command you, nor take from it, that you may keep the commandments of the Lord your God which I command you.
The next restriction I’m going to highlight here is the restriction that Ruth received to be able to gather grain and have food to eat with her mother-in-law Naomi. This can be applied to when we’re looking for a Job or when God is giving us an assignment and He establishes His restriction for us to be able to succeed in that assignment.
Ruth 2:8-9, 21-23
8 “Boaz went over and said to Ruth, ‘Listen, my daughter. Stay right here with us when you gather grain; don’t go to any other fields. Stay right behind the young women working in my field. 9 See which part of the field they are harvesting, and then follow them. I have warned the young men not to treat you roughly. And when you are thirsty, help yourself to the water they have drawn from the well.”
21 “Then Ruth said, ‘What’s more, Boaz even told me to come back and stay with his harvesters until the entire harvest is completed.”
22 “‘Good!’ Naomi exclaimed. ‘Do as he said, my daughter. Stay with his young women right through the whole harvest. You might be harassed in other fields, but you’ll be safe with him.
23 “So Ruth worked alongside the women in Boaz’s fields and gathered grain with them until the end of the barley harvest. Then she continued working with them through the wheat harvest in early summer. And all the while she lived with her mother-in-law.
Through all the instructions Ruth received as part of the restrictions of God for her, she was being kept in a safe environment, free from harassment. She told Ruth that this particular field was the safest one for her. Verse 23 tells us that she obeyed her mandate and that her assignment in that field was extended to the next harvest season.
As we read the rest of the story of Ruth, we will see that the favor of God was upon her, and her obedience let her go from being an apprentice in this field who went there so she and her mother-in-law would have food to eat, to marrying the owner of the field and owning it too.
So in part 2, I will talk about some New Testament examples of God’s restrictions for His people and also will let you know how I overcame the hardship that came to my life because of our previous disobedience to God’s restriction for us. ∎
To God alone be all the glory.
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